[摘要]：没有工作经验和社会阅历的毕业生要想在办公室里很好的生存下去，就必须了解办公室里的处事原则，步步为营。本文研究的就是办公室里的一系列的处事原则，主要分为交往之道和说话之道这两大方面，同时将这两个方面又进行了对领导、同事的分别阐述。通过问卷调查和一对一的方法对这两方面做了一个详细的解说。与同事交往时，首先要给他人一个好印象，注意与他人的距离并防范办公室“小人”。与领导交往时，除了要尊重领导，注意工作上的细节等问题之外，还要做好自己的工作，通过表现自己来得到领导的赏识。与同事沟通交流时，不仅要很好地表达自己，并且还要让别人真正听进去自己的话，同时也要避免一些敏感话题。与领导沟通时要保持一个良好的心态并且学会表达自己。

[关键词]：办公室 交往之道 说话之道

[Abstract]：If the graduates with no work experience and social experience want to survive well in the office, they should comprehend the principle of doing things in the office. This article is studying a series of principle of doing things, and it is mainly divided into two aspects: behave and talk. Studying this question by questionnaire and one-to-one discuss, then I make a detailed explanation of behave and talk in the office. When get along with colleagues, you should give them a good impression at first, notice the distance between you and your colleagues and keep a lookout of the office villain. When get along with the leader, except respecting him and noticing the details on work, you should do your work well and get the leader’s appreciate by showing yourself. When exchanging with colleagues, you should not only express yourself, but also let others truly listen to you, at the same time, you should notice to avoid some sensitive topics. If you link up with the leader, you should keep a good attitude and try to show yourself.

[Key words]:   office；   behave； Talk